Source: Kyria.com – Janice Davies
Why Did I Say That?
I needed to control my tongue better. Could something so simple as praise really be the cure I needed?
“Watch your words,” the speaker at the ladies’ retreat challenged us. Quoting from James 3, she described how our tongue can corrupt us and poison others. She encouraged us to seek God’s help to become like the woman described in Proverbs: “When she speaks, her words are wise, and she gives instructions with kindness” (Proverbs 31:26). I know my words sometimes hurt others, so I silently asked the Lord to change me.
After the retreat, I thought about what I needed to work on. Just in the previous week, I’d spoken harshly to my friend Julie when she was late for our get-together.
“I’ve been waiting an hour! Where have you been? You’re always late.”
Julie winced, and I quickly regretted my angry outburst. I’d exaggerated the situation, which I do when I’m upset. I apologized, but I knew I’d strained our friendship.
That night after the retreat, I prayed, “Lord, please help me control my tongue. I want to encourage others with my words, not hurt them. Show me how to begin. I really want to change. How do I do it?”
I sensed God’s reply: Begin by praising me.
I didn’t see what praising God had to do with controlling my tongue, but I believed this was God’s leading. My prayers had consisted mostly of requests for myself and others. They were genuine needs—not selfish or frivolous desires. But I needed to focus on the Giver of all good things, not on the things.
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